There’s a few announcements to make, and for those of you that follow Coffee & Wool on Facebook you probably already know about it, but start helping us spread the word.
The Traveling Yarn Yogi and her yarn bus Purl is on the way to visit our Pints and Purls meet up on January 10th from 6pm until she’s sick of us, or 9pm, whichever comes first.
Now on to the other things…
I’ve got some things bubbling for 2020!
Individual Lessons – I am making myself available for one-on-one lessons for brand new and beginning level knitters and crocheters on Saturdays and Sundays. Please contact me directly for pricing and time slots.
Finishing Services – available after January 18th – don’t like blocking, weaving in tons of ends, or assembling parts. Guess who’s finishing up a space in her home dedicated to all things yarn? Uh huh – this kid. The crafting cave is a pet free room where projects can be professionally finished. Keep in mind, the rest of my home isn’t pet free, but as many precautions as possible will be taken to limit allergen exposure to anyone sensitive to cats or dogs. Finishing services vary in price, based on what is required and time involved.
Yarn Winding – available after January 1st – I’ve found over the past year that I know a lot of people that hate winding their own yarn, or do not have the space/tools to do so. I’ve got you covered, especially after being gifted a wonderful yarn swift for Christmas that accompanies the professional grade ball winder that’s already been a part of the craft arsenal. For folks local to Gainesville, Georgia we will work out a pick up and drop off schedule. For non-locals, we can work out shipping, but I would encourage checking with your local yarn store first.
Skeins under 200 yards – $2
Skeins under 450 yards – $4
Jumbo skeins (anything over 450) – prices vary due to yarn weight and size but will range from $5-15.
There are some other plans being worked on for the coming year, an idea is being tossed around for a very specific knitting group, a charity project is in the works, it’s all about getting logistics in place.
Back a long, long time ago, in a galaxy far away I wrote a review of the Namaste Train Case and Buddy Case. Overall, they are holding up well and were good purchases but with some and travel a small update is warranted.
The Train Case is a great idea in theory and does work well for car travel, and knitting sessions outside of the home, but after flying with it twice there’s a downside, unless you fly first class and have enough leg room to move that case in and out from under the seat in front of you it may not be the best choice as your small carry on. I would still call it a great purchase but limited on air travel. The designers certainly put a lot of thought into making it flight friendly but in actual use it misses the mark. That Buddy Case though…worth every single penny, and maybe a bit more. That little box is within reach every time I knit, I just have to toss my scary looking scissors out of there before I get to the security checkpoint at the airport. They look more like a hand wrought tool of torture than a snips.
After the train case missed the mark on its airplane suitability I went back to looking for something a little easier to work with. I fly several times a year and have the attention span of a gnat unless I’m making something with my hands or working, so this is one of those oddly important things to me. I saw the Namaste Maker’s Foldover Bag and thought, hey this could work. Not going to lie, the numbers on that price tag burned a little bit, but I’ve been looking for not only airplane friendly but everyday carry bags that could accommodate my daily stuff and a project on the go.
I’m not a tiny purse type. I either have a good amount of stuff I like to have access to when I need it, or I just put my wallet and keys in my pocket. It’s always one extreme or the other.
The requirements are:
Can it comfortably fit a tablet and my beast of a planner – yep, I’m still running on an old school paper one.
Organization pockets – Bags that are just giant open caverns on the inside make my skin crawl.
Heavy material – My stuff needs to take a beating. Things that easily rip, or scuff do not stand a chance.
Can it squish under a seat if I need it to.
So the Maker’s Foldover Bag met all of those requirements on paper. I’ve had it for a two months now, and it’s survived a few flights and regular abuse at home, it’s withstanding the beating. It holds all the daily stuff – keys, wallet, planner, small notebook, sunscreen (don’t leave home without it) and all the other stuff you would likely find in a woman’s handbag. On a trip to California I had two projects crammed in, a not so tiny shawl, and socks. A third project probably could have been comfortably stuffed in but project overkill does exist. It will also hold my beast of a tablet.
I’ve finally found a single knitting/daily gear bag that travels well and looks professional if I happen to have a situation where I’m going to be meeting with someone related to my job. Considering the abuse it’s taken as a travel bag I expected a scuff or two by now and I have two small marks on the sewn corners of the strap at the high points. No one would notice unless it was pointed out so I declare it has passed the heavy material requirement. I could see after a few years of service the high points in other places being scuffed and the backing material underneath the “vegan leather” showing through, unfortunately that’s white in color, but I would be surprised if I saw wear or scuffing though the body of the bag itself. Your mileage will probably be better, I’m hard on bags. (Let’s not discuss what my luggage looks like these days or the fact I just had to replace my carry on roller-board because it was cracking in bad, bad, places.) The interior of the bag has a built in project bag dead center in the main compartment, making three large areas in the bottom of the bag and then there are multiple smaller pockets throughout the center, leaving enough space for the top to fold over if it’s not packed to the brim.
There are few negatives to this bag and anything I would call out as a negative would be pure knit-picking, but there are things worth noting. It’s a physically heavy bag. When I pulled it out of the shipping box I was surprised by the weight. It’s also a beast as far as size! The measurements are accurate in the description at Jimmy Beans, but until you see it in person it doesn’t sink in. For me these aren’t issues, but for others that have handled the bag those two things are almost always mentioned as potential downsides.
Is it worth the investment, yes, if you’re an oddball like me that really wants both access to crafting and daily gear all in one place. If you’re just a casual knitter that doesn’t have the compulsive need to keep an active project with you at all times, I would lean towards no, and that opinion is centered from the idea that unless you plan on using it often, that amount of money is better spent on yarn or other crafting tools.
Got any questions about things I may not have mentioned, just toss them into the comments and I’ll answer as quickly as I can.
Disclaimer: The products referenced in this review have been purchased with my own funds and have not been biased in anyway by the maker or seller. However, if you are interested in a product review, I’ll happily try your product if you’ll send it my way, and review it fairly.
It’s another purge and scrub day at the house, and I’m playing the procrastination game a bit while coffee brews, the bacon sizzles away in the cast iron on the stove top, and an episode of Orange is the New Black is on the tube. I’ve never been great at taking the time to actually cook breakfast, call it a side effect of not being a morning person, but when I do cook something up it’s usually on Sunday mornings. If I get moving fast enough I should be able to do what I need to do to the kitchen and go to an open mic night later today. The kitchen is probably going to be the easiest of the rooms to go through this purge process on, it stays pretty clean for obvious reasons, but I am guilty of accumulating too many free pint glasses and coffee mugs, have gadgets I haven’t used in ages, and need to dump a few doubles.
Knit-wise, I’m still exclusively working on The Philosopher’s Stone shawl. It’s been a while since I jumped into an intricate pattern. This one is beads (a real pain in the ass), lace and cables. It’s been noticed by at least two other knitting friends that this has been the case and another pattern was discovered. The only times I really dive into complex lace projects is when there is stress kicked off by a significant life change. It’s not often I talk about work here, but this time it’s a work thing. My boss has the opportunity to cut back to an as needed status and spend more time with her young child. As a friend, I’m thrilled for her, as a co-worker, I want to bang my head into the wall until I pass out. As far as management types go, she’s a huge loss. Big changes in the working life pushes my anxiety levels through the roof. I only have my income and a very meager savings account, so I’ll admit, I panic, and always default to “is the end nigh” thinking. That thinking really isn’t justified at this point, but it still happens. Anyway, the shawl is about two-thirds of the way complete, and after that I’ll dive back into the sweaters I need to finish. Fall is going to run up on me fast if I don’t pay attention.
Despite all the fussing, I did have a cool beans situation come up that allowed for me to upgrade my old iPad, and just in time too, it’ll be falling off the iOS update list this year. I now have my hands a nice shiny iPad. So what does that have to do with knitting…a lot actually. Big screen means I can actually see Knit Companion. I’m looking into what it would take to become a certified teacher for the program. I had kinda halfway looked into it a few years ago, but wasn’t really at the point I would have been comfortable teaching it despite knowing the ins and out of the program. Even if I don’t become a teacher for it, it’s still nice to have something that I can use it comfortably on again. The mini iPad I used had its benefits, but there was the squint factor on charts. I’ve also made a bold move for me, I’m going further in limiting my social media time. Facebook is still a consistent time suck for me despite turning off notifications, and alerts months ago. The facebook app, messenger, and the page manager for the Coffee and Wool facebook site have all been deleted from every one of my mobile devices. Unfortunately, I’m still loosing the battle with disconnecting from it entirely, but I’m more than comfortable saying I’m not only going to check it a couple of times a day when I’m doing something on the actual computer. Now the folks that keep insisting on sending messages through that infernal messenger app may finally understand it’s just easier to text me if they actually need to talk to me.
In the time I’ve taken to blab away, the bacon has been consumed, the coffee is nearly finished, and this episode of Orange is nearly over. So time to suck it up and get to work on the house so I can escape this afternoon.
As you delve deeper and deeper into the yarn life, you begin to notice other devotes to knitting and crochet, especially when you’re participating in one of the greatest of crafting rituals; crafting and binge watching.
A couple of weeks ago I dived beck into The Golden Girls. I remember a few episodes from my childhood when it was still in production, and more so once I hit the college years and syndicated episodes always seemed to be playing on one of the 10ish cable channels available in the dorms. Despite the passage of time, the series is still topically relevant.
Through this trip through the late 80’s I notice Sophia was a crocheter and has never finished what looks like a scarf with a bright orange border. I’ve giggled a few times, that someone thought enough to actually put together a decent prop but never had it progress, but then there are continuity errors left and right through the series. The idea of someone streaming an entire TV series from first episode until last and someone catching those errors had to be fairly foreign. I don’t remember the first box sets of TV series popping up until DVDs became easily accessible in the mid-90s.
Besides Sophia Patrillo, who else has busted out yarn on screen?
Molly Weasley – Harry Potter
Her monogrammed sweaters were pretty infamous. One day I need to get around to making on of them for myself.
Morticia Addams – The Addams Family
From TV series to movies, both Carolyn Jones and Angelica Houston can be seen with knitting needles in hand.
Izzie Stevens – Grey’s Anatomy
Izzie may have been the most noticeable character playing with yarn in the series, but there have been a lot of background characters through the seasons that have been working on projects.
Hawkeye Pierce – M*A*S*H
Yep, probably one of the few male characters that I can think of.
Old Nan – Game of Thrones
She gets the award for giant sized double points for what I think may be giant sized socks for Hodor.
I’m certain there are dozens more that just haven’t popped into my mind.
Slowly but surely, yarn crafting my be getting a little more screen time as it’s popularity continues to grow….but there’s a catch….as you see character’s working, are they doing it correctly? See how often you can catch an actor, well, acting how to knit or crochet.
I spent 5 hours today purging crap out of my home office, cleaning it from top to bottom, and rearranging it. That should give you an idea about how keeping the weekends free to do with as I please plan I talked about last week is going. After nearly a week to think about and revise my plan of action on trying to get my home life and my work life on more even footing, I think I’ve formulated a plan that will still work it’ll just take a few weeks to finish Phase 1.
I decided it was easier to work from a cleaner slate before really keeping weekends to myself. Each weekend, I’m taking one of the days to reset a room, and catch up on the chores that didn’t get handled during the week. I may have moved here a little less than a year ago, but have found there was stuff I should have purged before I moved, accumulated stuff I don’t need, and have really figured out what should go where. After a few weeks, I realistically should be able to begin the keeping up with most tasks on the weekdays.
My house isn’t a complete mess by any means, but I really struggle with things feeling like they are cluttered and disorganized, and it’s something that seems to bother me more and more as I get older. To be blunt, there are hoarding tendencies that run in the family, and I saw how my Grandmother lived. She wasn’t one of those people you would have seen on the show Hoarders with the rotting garbage and a blessing that smell-o-vision doesn’t exist, it was a clean hoard, well if you could call a hoard clean. It was mostly boxes on top of boxes of paperwork associated with her running her own tax services for decades, magazines, and just odd ball stuff she couldn’t part with. It grew until she had only little pathways to walk through. If you’ve not had to deal directly with trying to clean up a hoard, you have no idea how not only physical it is, but how emotionally charged it can be. The emotional charge behind all of that is probably a big part of the reason I’ve grown to really hate clutter and struggle with feeling closed in.
The office really needed to be first on deck. I have a hard time focusing in a space that feels disorganized, and over the past few months, my office had begun to look more than a little disheveled. Workload is at a place right now where I can’t afford to be unfocused. It’s been reclaimed, and I even moved my reading chair into one of the corners. The office is actually one of the quietest rooms in the house, the fur kids only drop in here periodically, and my small collection of house plants are there, so it made sense to move the reading chair in there, instead of continuing to let it live next to the front door and be a catch-all for dog leashes, bags, and an ambush point for the Severus to to taunt Sandor.
That’s the boring part of my weekend. I did keep yesterday to my own shenanigans. It’s been hotter than Hell’s front porch lately, opting to stay inside streaming The Golden Girls and throwing row after row into a richly textured shawl project was just what I needed. My mind is still recovering from my mini-meltdown last week, and that happens sometimes, so I didn’t feel like working on an easier project leaving my mind with time to over-think all the other things going on around me.
I’m working on a pattern called The Philosopher’s Stone, and I’ve been really impressed with how well it’s been written and charted. Even though it’s on the complicated side, it’s a good project for an intermediate knitter. There are cables, beadwork, lace, and textures galore so there’s not much opportunity to start predicting how the next row is going to work.
This is being worked up on a yarn I was introduced to in a LYS I found just outside of Orlando after a short work trip a couple of weeks ago. There’s more coming on that shop in a later post. The yarn is Illimani Sabri, and is a cotton and alpaca blend. It’s lending itself to this type of project with the cotton capable of holding amazing stitch definition and the alpaca softening up the feel of fabric. The Sabri was also amazingly priced at approximately $15 a skein at 400+ yards. I’m heading back to that project in a little bit, after I fold a couple of baskets of laundry and take care of the kitchen.
Things are better since my last post, but feeling out of your element all the time for months on end really wears on you, all it took was one particularly shitty day and hell finally broke loose. I appreciate the people that were kind enough to reach out and offer to help me handle a few project, offer to kidnap me and ransom me back to get me out of work for a while, and those that just responded that they understood and have been there too. The things that have been bothering me lately are all things we struggle with at one point or another.
It’s time for one of those non-craft related posts.
I’ve never been great at balancing my work life and home life, especially since a very large percentage of my work life happens in a small room in my house. Life tends to be a little heavy on the work and chores, what doesn’t happen during the week bleeds into the weekends and I don’t really get a break unless something gets neglected. Knitting has even taken a bit of a trip to the back burner. It still happens, but only because I consider it the keystone to my personal mental health plan. All work and no knitting makes Candy a dull girl. If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times, crafting keeps me sane. It’s been the greatest form of stress relief and meditation I’ve experienced and I usually end up with something nifty at the end of a project.
Long story short, last week sucked, and it triggered a lot of anger, anxiety, and defeat. Those are the big three of things I don’t deal with well.
Over the weekend, I pretty much shut down on the couch with a ball of yarn and a complicated lace/cable/beaded pattern (one so complicated that I had no option but to focus entirely on my hands, no brain function left to think of anything else) I declared – I can’t keep doing this to myself.
Everyone has their own struggles with finding balance, and everyone has different feelings about it, but as a single woman, that has the tendency to work very long hours some weeks, I have no option but to do it all on my own. No, do not take that as any sort of hint that I’m dipping my toe back into the dating pool. I have no interest (or time) to start looking for a relationship just because I need help with the house and yard work. Seriously, I do know people that dip in and out of the dating pool just for those purposes. I’m not a fan. Digression over.
So what’s a girl to do?
Schedule, prioritize, have some damned self-control.
When I feel burned out, I get lazy. I’ll hit a drive through or nuke a frozen something-or-another for meals. I’ll mow at the yard instead of really doing the job that it deserves – but at the same time it’s been 90+ degrees with what feels like 90+% humidity in the evenings after I get off work, most Georgians aren’t keeping up with those conditions. Laundry stacks higher and deeper. It may be getting washed but it isn’t getting put away. I think I’ve been rotating the same three pairs of paints, and week’s worth of shirts and underwear for a couple of months. Bottom line: I’m in a rut and I gotta fix it.
So what’s on the agenda?
I’ve got to start cooking real food again. I’ve always enjoyed it, but I’ve been lying to myself thinking I’m saving time by hitting up the drive through, or nuking something in the microwave. Realistically, it’s a 30-45 minute round trip to pick something up and bring it home. In that same amount of time, or very close to it, I can actually cook real food and eat it as a hot meal, instead of the lukewarm, often soggy crap that comes in the door in a paper bag. We won’t discuss all the other things that are wrong with take out. I’ve started hunting down crockpot and Instant Pot recipes to add to the arsenal of an already expansive list of the tried and true meals. If the meal pretty much can cook itself, that’s more time I can use to wrap up my work day, or complete some other house chore. I’m also not going to hide the fact that the near constant news of someone tampering with food, restaurants notifying diners that they may have been exposed to Hepatitis A, or someone neglecting some part of their job triggering recalls has bothered more more lately than it has in the past.
I’m experimenting with the 1-minute rule. The short version of that idea, if it will only take a minute or two do complete, just complete the task when you see it. Dishwasher needs unloaded when you pass by, just do it. Trash needs to go out, just do it. Toilet bowl needs cleaned, just do it. On and on.
I actually need to schedule time to complete certain tasks during the week and adjust my work schedule around those needs, not the other way around, especially when work is busy. I can work all day, but I can’t mow the grass in the dark or when it is at its absolute hottest and muggiest out. I may actually melt. I am fortunate that I do have enough flexibility with my schedule that I can step away for short amounts of time to handle tasks as long as key people know I’m stepping away. I don’t think anyone will be upset with an email saying hey, I’m taking an early lunch and I’ll be back in an hour and a half once or twice a week.
I need to schedule time to keep this blog and all the other little things that fall under the Coffee and Wool umbrella alive. I’ve recently announced I’m willing to take on Saturday individual lessons again. I have a list of informative posts and reviews to write. I have patterns that I need to proofread and have people test. Other than the occasional post and my evening and weekend knitting, a lot of those aspirations just sit in the corner collecting dust.
Weekends are the prize. I need to push myself enough that 5pm Friday through 8am Monday are my hours to do with what I want without feeling obligated to complete something – with the exception of teaching a lesson or two here or there. I need to be able to get the social interaction I need, I don’t require much being introverty, crash into the couch and binge watch an entire season of a series, or load up the dog and hike the woods for hours without feeling like I’m ignoring responsibilities. Unplugged Sundays may evolve into unplugged weekends too.
There’s a bit more rambling here than I intended but there are times you just need to see thoughts in words, and put them out there.
Have any of you worked a similar plan to get back in order? Feel free to share any tips, successes, failures, or recipes.
Imagine it: Gainesville, Monday night, June, 2019, sitting on the Square, a knitter is asked what’s in her yarn by a non-knitting friend. Three natural fibers rolled out of the knitter’s mouth. Now that Sophia Petrillo has set the scene it’s time to get down to business.
There is actually a lot of fiber that can be spun into yarn and there are times the choices can be a little overwhelming. I’ve not written an educational post for a while so it’s time to put together the mini primer for fiber basics.
Fiber can really be split into two main categories, natural and synthetic. This will be split into several posts over time because we are finding new ways to create fibers not only from natural sources but creating new synthetics ones, but we’ll start with some of the animal sourced fibers first. I think we can comfortably say, most of the animals that produce a usable fiber that can be used sustainably in yarn production have been discovered.
All of these fibers come from animals that have either all or part of their wool/coat/fur harvested through shearing, combing, or collecting natural sheds during the spring and summer. If done responsibly it does not injure the animal. Although many of these animals are now found all over the world, many of these fibers are still harvested closest to the areas where the animal was natively found and domesticated.
The Natural Critter Sourced Fibers
Wool!More specifically sheep’s wool is the most common animal sourced fiber spun into yarn. It’s nature’s first dri-fit material. Yep, wool will wick moisture away to be evaporated and despite the belief that wool can only be worn during the cold months it can be worn year round because of its wicking and thermogenic properties. It also has UV resistant properties. There are a few types of sheep wool fibers to watch out for, other than the generic wool term, you’ll find a couple of specialty sheep provided goodies. Merino is a specific wool fiber that is less likely to cause allergic reactions and is touted as softer than most wools. Shetland wool is specific to the Shetland Islands. Icelandic wool – well you can guess where it comes from. Regional wool varieties and types can cause this post to go on and on, but overall most sheep wool has similar properties. Sheep wool is harvested all around the world, but most notably the UK, New Zealand, and Australia.
Cashmere! Also called Cash Here in some circles is supplied by the Cashmere goat. It has a silky feel and is great for anything worn close to the skin during the cold months and is more or less the fiber gold standard – for now – cashmere’s supremacy is beginning to be challenged by other animal fibers that are more sustainably produced. It’s very warm and very soft and incredibly insulating. It’s pricy because of the time and effort it takes to comb and sort the useable fiber from the undercoat instead of the more coarse protective topcoat. The Cashmere goat is native to Tibet, China, Myanmar, Bhutan, Nepal, Ladakh and Baltistan (Kashmir region).
Mohair! This is a fiber produced by Angora goats. These goats have a curly locks and the yarn spun from this fiber will have a natural “halo” or fine fuzz to it. It’s another very warm, insulating fiber, where a little goes a long way. A garment made from lace weight mohair will be just as warm if not more so than an item made from a bulky sheep’s wool. The Angora goat originated in the district of Angora in Asia Minor, but are now more common in Turkey, Argentina, and the United States.
Alpaca! It’s soft, it’s squishy, it’s warm (okay most animal fibers are) and it’s possibly hypoallergenic. It has the best silky soft features of cashmere without the price tag. Alpaca seems to have grown in popularity over the past decade or so. I can understand why, I could cuddle up and sleep in a mountain of Alpaca yarn. This is another fiber that is know for its moisture wicking properties making it great for garments and gloves. Alpacas like the higher elevations of Peru, Bolivia, Ecuador, and Northern Chile.
Angora! Not all fiber comes from goats and sheep. This one comes from bunnies. Angora like cashmere can be a little on the pricy side. It has the feel of cashmere with the halo of mohair. The fiber is collected by pulling the loose shedding fibers from the rabbit. If you happen to wander of to a fiber fair you may see hand spinners with a rabbit sitting quietly in their lap while they pull the fiber and spin it seconds later. Properly done this does not hurt the rabbit at all as it’s the loose fiber that has to be brushed from it’s fur on a regular if not daily basis. Angora rabbits originated in Turkey and quickly spread throughout Europe in the 1700s.
Yak! This may be one of the largest animals fiber is harvested from. Handlers brush the undercoat out of their longer guard hair. Yak is gaining in popularity since it has many of the features of cashmere with the soft silky feel, but is considered a more sustainable alternative since yaks are more adaptable than the cashmere goat and produce a greater amount of fiber. They are native to Tibet, Mongolia and Russia.
Musk Ox! I had to toss an odd one in there. If you think cashmere is pricy, let me introduce you to qiviut. Qiviut much like the most of the other fibers is good ole undercoat that will naturally shed from Musk Ox when things start warming up. Musk Ok are native to Alaska and parts of Canada and the fiber is generally collected from the natural sheds from the ground and whatever the Ox is rubbing up against. There are some farms that are able to comb their Ox but I’ve been told from a pretty reliable source that Musk Ox can be a little testy and it’s just easier to pick up the fiber. This fiber is warmer than wool and proven to be softer than cashmere. Qiviut production has deep ties into regional First Nation’s yarn production and knitting culture (sounds like a topic for future blog posts). Qiviut has become a little more mainstream with blends becoming available.
I’ll touch on this subject again, there are so many usable fibers out there that trying to cram them all into a single post would be exhausting, and quite possibly a novella in length. Stand by, more fiber education to come.
If you missed it earlier today, Ravelry, a resource a great many crafters use to find patterns, ideas, and other crafters drew a line in the sand.
To make a long story short, leave your support of Trump and his administration off of Ravelry. If you want to read the full announcement you can find it here. It’s been one of the biggest political moves I’ve seen in the crafting world, period.
I was surprised by the move, but will admit I’ve not been surprised by the reactions I’ve seen in other crafting groups I follow online, responses to the policy seem to be firmly in one camp or the other. The political climate in the good ol’ US of A has been more than a little tense the past few years. I try to make it a point to keep my own political beliefs off of Coffee and Wool and it’s associated facebook page unless a craft related event warrants it, and even then, I do my best to remain neutral. Which, believe me, can be pretty difficult somedays. I’m not politically neutral in my non-crafting life.
Overall, I’m not a huge fan of heated political discussion getting involved in a medium I use to relax and use as a form of thoughtful meditation. It’s just a good way to ruin a good thing, but there is a great many people that use fiber art in many forms to express their political beliefs. Art in any form has a lot to do with personal preference and expression.
The most recent example that a lot of us saw, made, or where asked to make where the “pink pussy hats”. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with craftivism or crafting your political viewpoint, I’m all for it if that’s your thing.
What a lot of people tend to forget when it comes to membership in large social networking forums like Ravelry, Facebook, Twitter, etc., that they are entities that are making their own rules and those rules can evolve as needed. We all sign ToS agreements (that very few of us read) that all have legal language along the lines that our posts can be moderated on whatever terms the site choses.
If you find yourself disagreeing with the new Ravelry policy and don’t feel like you can further participate within those realms, you have the option to collect your patterns, download your site data and move on. If you find yourself celebrating the new policy, carry on as normal. But I feel like the point needing to be stressed that ad hominem attacks on fellow crafters for falling one way or another does little to help ease tensions. We are unique in the fact that we are such an amazingly diverse group that has a single element that unites us.
So the big question here is, did Ravelry make a mistake with this announcement?
Yes, no, maybe? Yeah I know, I’m not a help at all here. Go back and read that part where I would like to politically neutral. The best answer here is, time will tell. The crafting community is incredibly diverse. There will be a noticeable percentage of people that will walk away from Ravelry over this new rule. Will it be enough that advertising slows? Is there a chance advertisers will pull their own sponsorship? Maybe.
A lot of us American’s are a little too tense these days. Maybe we should just pick up our yarn, master our craft, and be the better example and keep things civil.
Update: Much like the sites I’ve listed above having rules about what can and can’t be said, this blog also has some very basic guidelines. I moderate the comments, and anything I deem inappropriate or down right spam gets rejected. There’s only been two that I’ve rejected and one of those was on this post.
I was rather rudely told to “check my privilege” and my crafting history over the comments I made in the rest of this post. I’m going to address it very quickly. There is a long and beautiful history of knitting participating in politics, codes and information have been hiding in hand crafted items for centuries. There are thousands of objects created that have a clear political stance. I’ve always supported those that have chosen to express their political views despite how I feel about where they fall on the political spectrum. I expressed that support in the main text as well. Read things before you jump down someone’s throat.
I’m far from blind or ignorant of the discussions regarding racism and white privilege within the fiber arts and crafting communities that spawned from instagram posts and into broader mediums.
Bottom line, this crafter has chosen not to express her political viewpoint on a blog or on a facebook page. The rest of my life is affected by political choices and the ideologies of others being forced on me wether I agree or not, crafting is the one realm where I can reject that influence and I intend to keep doing so. It does not mean I remain silent on political topics in the rest of my life.
The greater goal of Coffee and Wool is to share information, encourage fiber artists new and old, and remind people that crafting can have an amazing impact on one’s life by being a medium for meditation, relaxation, and at times socialization. I cannot have a public political stance and have those goals for this ongoing project. I won’t alienate people that way.
I hit a little bit of a breaking point yesterday. Unfortunately, when I get stuck in a weather cycle that includes days of rain and thunderstorms I’ll inevitably develop a migraine and end up way more agitated over the smallest things than any human should be. That was yesterday for me. I skipped out on an event I had full intentions of going to, told everyone I was turning off my phone and hiding out until Monday.
I’m at the house, still in my PJs fresh from a long nap, uninterrupted by a house filled with bleeps and bloops. I spent the morning knitting and watching a couple of movies, dived into a book for a while, you know, the stuff introverty type people enjoy when they’ve finally hit their wall.
Silence is never an option in our lives, but it’s almost jarring when you notice just how often some bit of technology is making sounds and demanding your attention so often.
As much as I love technology’s ability to keep us all connected there are times I wish it wasn’t so simple. There are days that a text message notification makes me want to throw my phone across the room. It’s usually someone just typing the word “hi” as an opener to pry into the rest of my day, and at times that feels so intrusive it will make me angry. Then god forbid you don’t reply fast enough, there are people that insist on continuing the intrusion again by either texting again or calling with ‘is everything okay you didn’t answer?’ causing further annoyance. It’s probably just a quirky introvert issue, but it’s still an issue. It also is likely a failure on my part to place boundaries on the repeat offenders. I felt it a little sad that I had to announce on a certain social media page that I need a quiet day, and even then, that isn’t fully respected by some. I’ve picked up my phone twice today to see a handful of messages from people that obviously didn’t see or willfully ignored my request for a quiet day, and a few that were legitimately passing along info that I needed for the week that knew I wouldn’t be responding.
So yes, I’m bitching a bit, so on to other things.
An unplugged weekend may turn into a permanent affair. When I see that usage stats notification come through on my phone, my skin crawls and I feel utterly disappointed with myself. Despite feeling like I don’t waste a great deal of time dicking around on my phone, the actual numbers say otherwise. I waste 15-20 hours a week on a tiny screen that does nothing to improve my life. I should be wasting that time reading, crafting, sleeping (poking at a screen until the wee hours happens more than I like), learning something new, actually going out and doing something, on and on and on. I’ve also been struggling with feeling like the weekends are stolen by chores and errands. Maybe reclaiming some of those 15-20 hours a week and actually taking care of things would give me the weekends back.
I’m feeling a little nostalgic of my early adulthood years. I’m an Xennial, the Oregon Trail generation, that odd little age group that doesn’t quite fit Gen X or the Millennials. In fact, being called a millennial at times feels like an insult. I remember the dark ages before the internet and before everyone had a cell phone in their pocket. At 18 there was access to the internet, cell phones were finally getting to pocket sized, texting was an option for those of us that didn’t feel the need to get drawn into a phone conversation, and those were brief (T9 was a bitch), and social media wouldn’t begin to become a factor in our lives until 2003. I’m not going to lie, there’s been a few times today when I’ve fought the urge to check the social media networks to see what’s going on. It’s not a secret that I’ve felt social media holds too much real estate in our minds, and I’ve struggled with the idea of disconnecting from it entirely. I haven’t because I feel like there is actually risk that I would lose contact with people I care about because they are so entrenched, that contacting others outside FB, twitter, instagram and the myriad of others is no longer on their radar.
So if I feel forced to participate I can at least have better control of it. I’m going to experiment for a bit, beginning Friday nights after I get in for the evening I’ll log out of the whole mess until Monday morning. But that all comes down to one thing, do I have the self control to keep it up, or am I too sucked into this mess to do it on a routine basis. This is were it all wraps up today. I’m going to go cook a nice dinner, and go back to the book I’m reading. What do you guys think? Am I alone in feeling this way, or is this a problem for you too?
Well folks, once again, it’s been far too long since my last update. I’m trying to get better about this. Really. I promise. Spring is already beginning to give way into summer and my list of projects at the house seems to continue to grow. A lot of my free time is spent out in the yard these days attempting to shape it into something presentable to the public and more importantly a place I’ll enjoy over the years to come. It wasn’t horrible to begin with, it was just bare, and I’m not the type of person to have only grass. The focus has been on planting perennials and shrubs and building out the beds to put them in. The work I did earlier this spring is starting to show with blooms here and there. If someone told me this time last year that I would leave the world of rented apartments and duplexes and have my own little house, I would have laughed at them.
The crafting projects are still being worked on but not at the pace that I’ve burned through them in the past. I have a hunch this will pick back up in the fall and winter. I’m still getting at lest an hour in a day. It’s important to me to work that little bit of knitting time in for sanity’s sake. It’s my meditation time. I’ve still got a sweater for a friend to finish, my own sweater, and a handful of other projects in various states. There’s also some good news locally, a few of us are trying to get a Friday evening craft meet up rolling again. It’s called Pints and Purls and we meet up at Downtown Drafts on the Gainesville, GA square. Now, I know, there are a few other craft groups out there named Pints and Purls, but hey, it’s a perfect name for a group that meets for an adult beverage with yarn in hand. I guess if there’s an official organization somewhere, consider the Gainesville, GA chapter established. If you are in the area feel free to drop on in around 6pm on Fridays. We won’t be hard to find, there will be a table with fidgeting fingers and balls of yarn.
And lastly, in this brief update.
Now this is my favorite long term project. Sandor, the lab/mystery dog mix, is about 8 months old now and has accomplished making me laugh every single day. We’re still working on puppy exuberance issues, but overall he’s a damn good dog…well as long as you don’t ask my cat Severus. Severus is still pissed that a dog has invaded his sanctuary. Lucious, the more forgiving cat, on the other hand, will play with him like he was another dog. Sandor and Lu also have an odd afternoon ritual, where they will snuggle up near each other on the couch and before the urge to nap takes over, Lu will wash Sandor’s face. Sandor used to fight his daily face washing as a tiny puppy but he seems to have grown to enjoy it.
That’s it for the moment. I’m alive, well, and happy. How are you guys doing? Fill me in.